Who Might Receive A Gift?

The most meaningful approach is to consider who has played a genuine role in supporting you, both in the planning process and in your lives more generally.

You may wish to give gifts to:

• Bridesmaids.
• Groomsmen.
• Maid of honour.
• Best man.
• Flower girls and page boys.
• Parents and step-parents.
• Siblings.
• Anyone else you would like to thank, such as a close friend who has helped extensively, a relative who has hosted events, or someone who has provided practical support during planning.

For couples planning a larger wedding party, a tiered approach can work well: a more substantial gift for those with significant responsibilities (for example, a maid of honour or best man), and a smaller but still personal gift for others.

Some wedding couples do not have an official wedding party; however, you may wish to acknowledge other friends or family who have played a part in your wedding, even if they do not hold a traditional role.

Read our guide to wedding roles explained.

Wedding Party Gift Ideas

The best wedding party gift ideas sit at the intersection of usefulness and sentiment. Aim for something the recipient will genuinely enjoy, paired with a detail that makes it unmistakably chosen for them.

Here are some gift ideas to consider when choosing how best to thank those closest to you.

Personalised Gifts

Personalised gifting remains popular because it transforms a lovely item into a lasting keepsake.

Ideas include:

• Monogrammed accessories, such as handkerchiefs, card holders, wallets, bags, and decorative hair slides.
• A framed photo of you together on your wedding day.
• Perfume/aftershave bottles engraved with their initials.
• Custom artwork, such as stylised sketches of them in their attire or miniature watercolour paintings of the wedding party.

If you are marrying at Hatfield Park – a historic wedding venue – you may also consider subtle venue-linked touches, such as artwork inspired by gardens, heritage architecture, or the tones of the day’s styling – kept understated and elegant rather than overtly themed.

Experiences

For recipients who value time and memory-making over objects, experiences are particularly thoughtful. They can also be ideal when you are working within a set budget, as experiences can be scaled up or down.

Ideas include:

• Spa day packages or a treatment voucher. For example, a gift voucher from The Oak House studio and Therapies could be a thoughtful way to say thank you.
• Wine tastings or a vineyard tour.
• A private dining experience or a thoughtfully chosen restaurant voucher.
• Tickets to an event, such as a concert or play. You might consider one of the many events held at Hatfield Park.

Learn more about how to choose the perfect wedding venue.

Classic Gifts

Classic gifts remain popular for good reason: they are often easy to select, widely appreciated, and well-suited to wedding traditions.

Options include:

• Matching jewellery for members of the wedding party, such as necklaces and cufflinks.
• A bottle of Champagne with labels featuring the wedding date.
• Engraved watches or hip flasks.
• Floral bouquets that complement your wedding flowers.
• Hampers filled with indulgent treats, including beauty products, fine wines, and artisanal foods.

Unique, Creative Ideas

For many couples, the most meaningful wedding gifts for the bridal party are those that are inspired by true friendships. Creative gifting allows you to honour each person as an individual.

Consider:

• Floral preservation from their bouquets or boutonnières, transformed into pressed artworks or resin keepsakes.
• Subscription boxes tailored to their interests, such as literature, fine food, or well-being.
• Their favourite homemade baked treats.
• Photo collages or curated books of your shared wedding journey or friendship.

Read our guide to boho wedding inspiration – creating a dreamy boho wedding.

What Should I Consider When Selecting Wedding Party Gifts?

Here are some things to consider when selecting gifts for your wedding party:

Your Relationship

When selecting gifts, consider each person’s interests, personality, and the moments you have shared. A thoughtful choice will mean far more than something that does not quite suit their style or preferences.

Some couples prefer to give the same gift to everyone in a particular group, such as all bridesmaids or all groomsmen. This can still feel personal, particularly if the item is carefully chosen, and it also simplifies the practical aspects of ordering and wrapping. Many suppliers can package and personalise gifts on your behalf.

Other couples prefer to tailor gifts to the individual. Selecting something specific to a person’s tastes – for example, a favourite fragrance, a book by a much-loved author, or a spa treatment – can feel deeply personal.

Budget

A clear budget protects the rest of your planning and reduces decision fatigue. You may choose to focus on immediate members of the wedding party if your budget is limited, or to extend gifts to a broader circle if circumstances allow.

Deciding on an amount per person and selecting different items within that range can keep things both fair and flexible. Plan for presentation costs such as wrapping, gift boxes, and postage if you are shipping gifts in advance.

Presenting the Perfect Gift at the Right Time

The way you present your wedding party gifts can be almost as thoughtful as the gifts themselves. It can be helpful to consider both the timing and the setting in which you will present them.

Some couples choose to present gifts during a quiet moment on the morning of the wedding. Others prefer to do so at the wedding itself, during or after the speeches, or at a relaxed gathering in the days following the celebration.

Presentation also adds to the sense of occasion. You may wish to add your own touches, such as coordinated ribbons, tissue paper in your wedding colours, or an elegant gift box.

Including a short, handwritten note or letter with each gift is a particularly heartfelt gesture. A few lines acknowledging the support, time, or care someone has given can transform a simple gift into a lasting keepsake.

Find Wedding Party Gift Inspiration at Hatfield Park

Wedding party gifting is about thanking the people who made your day possible, and reflecting the care that has gone into the celebration as a whole. When you choose with intention – considering each person, your shared history, and the tone you wish to set – your gifts become part of the story of the day.

If you are planning your wedding at Hatfield Park, the setting offers a natural sense of occasion, with a range of charming, flexible indoor and outdoor wedding spaces. The expert wedding team at Hatfield Park can help you shape a celebration that feels personal, elegant, and seamless – right down to the thoughtful finishing touches that your guests will remember. From the historic Old Palace to the stunning Parklands, inspiration is all around.

Contact our expert wedding team today to explore our venue options, or download our wedding brochure.